Feb 24

Confessions of a Weight Loss Coach #2

There is a little bit of change going on around here.

And that is what happens when you pitch a tent on Ground Truth and embark on a Truth Experience.

Things change.  And we have a choice to either change with our own growth and evolution or hunker down and hide from it.  Either way, it is going to happen.

I chose the hiding route for a little while. Not on purpose, of course.  My home office has become quite the haven for alone time and corporate detoxing.  (Which, come to think of it sounds like the "I'm still carrying baby weight" excuse.  Is it no longer baby weight when said baby is in 4th grade?)

Anyway... Like baby weight loss, the detoxing did take longer than I expected it to.  I mean, who would have thought that a week wouldn't be plenty?  Yet, my adrenals are still certifiably shot two years after corporate departure.

I suppose, though, that the healing time turned into hiding around the same time I stopped writing consistently (again) on the blog.  Now I can see that  this has become quite the pattern.

Hiding = Inability to craft a clever sentence, much less an entire blog post.

When not one, but three, of my fellow coaching buddies asked me why I was hiding, it was time to find the truth in my blind spot.  Investing in a little coaching myself, there it was.

I had mentally cornered myself into a LiteThoughts box and didn't know how to get out.

Don't get me wrong... I do still love this logo.  While it once felt free, though, it now feels "lite."   This no longer feels like my brand.

I want to be grounded.

In Truth. With a capital T.  No more hiding.

And Experience! Not play small.

And with the light (not "lite") shining on that, I realized that the Truth Experience had found me. I have been living it for the past three years.  At least.  Maybe for forever.

What I was hiding from was the fear of change. Go figure.  And the vulnerability of showing who I really am and what I really do and that it has... wait for it... changed.  Not that you probably couldn't see it anyway.  Funny how those blind spots work.

So, with a lot of joy and excitement, I invite you to join me on this Truth Experience. Tapping into and rooting into your own Ground Truth is quite the freeing experience.

Things always change. Things would be changing right now if your father were alive, Edgar. That's just life. You can fight it or you accept it. The only difference is, if you accept it, you can get to do other things. If you fight it, you're stuck in the same spot forever.
~ David Wroblewski, "The Story of Edgar Sawtelle"

I really can't wait to hear how your Truth unfolds.

In Truth & With Love,


photo credit:  firebrandphotography

{ 24 comments… read them below or add one }

Catharina February 24, 2011 at 8:40 am

LOVE IT JEN! And your website is just gorgeous. Please write lots more.
Much love
Catharina

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:33 am

Thank you so much, Catharina! For stopping by the site and for all of your support!
Much love back,
Jennifer

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Helen Samson Mullen February 24, 2011 at 1:43 pm

Gorgeous Jennifer. Thanks for leading the movement to Ground Truth. Your site is beautiful, a reflection of you, and your work is life changing. I’m truly thankful to have met you!
Kindest,
Helen

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:36 am

Oh, Helen! Thank you for your editing help and I am so thankful for your friendship!
xo,
JV

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Pamela Slim February 24, 2011 at 5:03 pm

That is just plain awesome!

Isn’t it funny how we trap ourselves … in our own boxes?

This does feel like the full-contact Jen Experience — can’t wait to see it unfold!

xox,

-Pam

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:39 am

Pam – This means the world coming from you! Thank you!!
xoxo,
Jennifer

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Stacy February 24, 2011 at 5:24 pm

Jen, your site, love truth, love you. What a gift you are bringing into the world. I will stay tuned! hugs to you, Stacy

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:46 am

Thank you, Stacy! Big hugs!
xo,
Jennifer

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Catherine February 24, 2011 at 5:52 pm

I love how you have evolved!! Signing up for the eTruth and looking forward to hearing, seeing, reading more of your grounded truthfulness!

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:48 am

Catherine – Thank you so much for signing up! And for stopping by!
xo,
Jennifer

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Lori Race February 24, 2011 at 6:14 pm

As you already know, I am in LOVE with this! and hearing your story of hiding and how you felt painted into a corner with your previous branding felt like you singing the ultimate Truth song! Woot! xo

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:42 am

Lori – Thank you! And I am so excited this year for both of us! We are going to have a blast! Woot! xoxo,
Jennifer

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Margaret Tiveron February 24, 2011 at 7:13 pm

I love the article (can relate just the tiniest bit!). And I love the look of the website…only you spelled honour wrong! :-) ) Looking forward to seeing how this unfolds.
Hugs,
Margaret

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:49 am

You know, Margaret, I think I did spell honour wrong! HA!!
Seriously, thank you for all your support!
Hugs -
Jennifer

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Renee Sievert February 24, 2011 at 7:14 pm

Jen – love the new look. And I love how TAO you are about the process you went through and how the change came about. Rock On with the Truth Experience. Sounds like you have done a lot of work on healing the past — can’t wait to see how you Create your Future!

Hugs,
Renee

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 1:50 am

Thank you, Renee! And I can’t wait to see you in the spring in person… finally!!
Hugs back,
Jennifer

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Lynn Hess February 25, 2011 at 3:31 am

Jen, this is absolutely gorgeous and peaceful feeling. I love, love, love the tree! I don’t know if you’ve ever heard this, or if it’s even true, but someone told me once that swirls represent personal growth — so, perfect!!

I look forward to reading all about your new discoveries as you come out of hiding “with the light (not “lite”) shining” all over!

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Jennifer February 25, 2011 at 4:35 am

Thank you, Lynn! I had not heard that about swirls… but it feels good! We can keep that story! : )
Hugs!
Jennifer

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Jennifer Armstrong February 26, 2011 at 6:19 am

Love this site. It is beautiful. I love your story more. It is so nice to see you!

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Jennifer February 27, 2011 at 4:25 am

Hey JA! It’s nice to see you here too. Thank you!
xoxo, JV

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Daggi March 1, 2011 at 5:49 pm

I have three letters for your website…WOW!

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Jess March 10, 2011 at 6:43 pm

Congrats on the amazing changes and growth and the keeping-up-with-who-you-really-are, Jen! I love it!!! :o )

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Jess March 10, 2011 at 6:44 pm

Ooops, that face should be :)

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Jennifer March 17, 2011 at 3:12 pm

Ha ha! I love both faces. Both have been quite appropriate at times! Thank you! And thanks for stopping by, Jess!

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